tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8127791343893978167.post2172751453004188254..comments2011-12-11T12:09:49.891-08:00Comments on Goddess On Top: Letter from the little slave...IsisRisinghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05855960172294396716noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8127791343893978167.post-72803803099456683852010-06-24T18:22:22.721-07:002010-06-24T18:22:22.721-07:00Great blog, I can relate to your sense of frustra...Great blog, I can relate to your sense of frustration (and perhaps a bit of fear?). But seeing as though you are only back it for a relatively short amount of time I think you are doing great...don't give up, you'll be fine.<br /><br />I can only point out that you, as the Mistress, are in the position of control...not him!<br /><br />My suggestions are - Find something that YOU enjoy and make that the focus of your dominance over him. For example, I think you mentioned that you enjoy having him do all of the housework. Well, assign him housework until he's blue in the face and then give him some more. Make sure you are dissastified with the job he does and make him do it all over. Wake him up in the middle of the night and tell him the floors need mopping ...NOW.<br /><br />Let him know you're the boss and he's just the little servant and if he wants to be your sub then he had better start acting like it.<br /><br />Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with, even if he wants it (i.e. heavy corporalpunishment). This is about both of you not just him. Yes push your own limits from time to time, but if you aren't comfortable with a whip in your hand, put it down and pick up a ruler or something that is less intimidating (to you).<br /><br /><br />Please keep us informed as to your progress.<br /><br />GeorgeGeorgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13461562487537532000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8127791343893978167.post-5422343520212358112010-06-24T18:13:07.689-07:002010-06-24T18:13:07.689-07:00Great blog, I can relate to your sense of frustra...Great blog, I can relate to your sense of frustration (and perhaps a bit of fear?). But seeing as though you are only back at it for a relatively short amount of time I think you are doing great...don't give up, you'll be fine.<br /><br />I can only point out that you, as the Mistress, are in the position of control...not him!<br /><br />My suggestions are - Find something that YOU enjoy and make that the focus of your dominance over him. For example, I think you mentioned that you enjoy having him do all of the housework. Well, assign him housework until he's blue in the face and then give him some more. Make sure you are dissastified with the job he does and make him do it all over. Wake him up in the middle of the night and tell him the floors need mopping ...NOW.<br /><br />Let him know you're the boss and he's just the little servant and if he wants to be your sub then he had better start acting like it.<br /><br />Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with, even if he wants it (i.e. heavy corporalpunishment). This is about both of you not just him. Yes push your own limits from time to time, but if you aren't comfortable with a whip in your hand, put it down and pick up a ruler or something that is less intimidating (to you).<br /><br /><br />Please keep us informed as to your progress.<br /><br />GeorgeGeorgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13461562487537532000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8127791343893978167.post-21051811968047594602010-06-18T06:36:54.381-07:002010-06-18T06:36:54.381-07:00Kerry,
You have a very interesting blog. It is no...Kerry,<br /><br />You have a very interesting blog. It is not always easy dealing with a husband, but if you love him, there is not mcuh choice.<br /><br />May I make one suggestion. Train you man to respond to non verbal commands. John is trained to drop to the floor when my fingers are snaped in his direction. In that position he is not allowed to speak unless spoken to. It is a quick way to end an argument.<br /><br />Everyday of our lives we practive this command for a few minutes. It is now second nature for John to drop to the floor when so commanded. He stays in that postion until released. It can be a few seconds, a few minutes, or an hour. It is a good way to cool a man off and give you some quite time.<br /><br />The postion requires him to have his toes, elbows, and forehead on the floor, with his rear end up in the air. It is a humiliating position for a man to assume in front of hiw wife, but it lets him know she is the boss. Also, let your man know he is to assume that position anytime, any place you decide to snap your fingers. It is a simple act, but tends to give a wife real authoirty over a man.<br /><br />Love, KathyKathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07388565466269673134noreply@blogger.com